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Jeff: Asks questions, omits very relevant details
Community: Yes, you were pushy and your approach will signal to many women that you’re not looking for anything serious
Jeff: My only response is that I was born and raised in NYC, we HOOKUP here
*five pages later*
Jeff: Also, I am bad in bed + she was only 60% enthusiastic about me
Community: You should’ve mentioned that earlier. She wasn’t enthusiastic about you, you kept pushing, and then you were disappointing. Of course she rejected you.
Male Commenter: You should keep in mind just about every woman has had bad experience with men.
Jeff: I am deaf to women’s issues! Nobody in my circle has ever dealt with them! We’re liberal New Yorkers who HOOKUP!
Jeff: Consent is CONFUSING!
Jeff: She was probably even more than 60% into me, though.
Jeff: I’m going to keep HOOKING UP! Where are you from?
Jeff: See? These articles agree! Consent is CONFUSING!
Jeff: If I THINK I have consent, which is very confusing, I’m going to go for it. After all, bad hookups happen!
Jeff: I have had girlfriends before!
Jeff: The one in four statistic is warped! I know this because I believe none of my friends have been assaulted or raped. I believe the one in four statistic, though.
Jeff: I am going to quote cherry picked articles at you to PROVE that consent is confusing.