Reply To: He doesn’t want to make official because of the distance

It sounds like you’ve only met in person once. That’s not a lot. I can understand why he doesn’t want to say bf/gf yet. You’ll be living in the same city four months from now. That is not a very long wait and come September, you will be able to spend a lot of time together and decide if you want to be bf/gf. I interpret the exclusivity pledge as neither will date anyone else between now and September, or if they want to date someone, they will tell the other and break-up before doing so.