Reply To: He doesn’t want to make official because of the distance

I don’t understand being exclusive but not being bf/gf. I think Ron has it right, but it still doesn’t make sense to me. If you’re “exclusive” then doesn’t that imply some sort of relationship? I don’t like linguistic gymnastics.

THe cynic in me says that he wants to keep you on lock until he arrives in your city but wants to keep it in this limbo state so that he can keep his options open after he moves. I also think you’ve met once in person and you shouldn’t be “exclusive” or bf/gf because 99% of your time together is virtual.