Reply To: Rekindled with ex, but she is friends with all her exes and people she has dated

I mean… you say you aren’t jealous, but you also ask: “Maybe she does not want to move on from him after all?” If you really believe that, then yes, you still have jealousy, insecurity, and trust issues. (Not to mention, in your first post, you cited social media connections with exes/past dates as a point of concern.)

It sounds even more now after reading your lengthier response that you’re keeping score. It has been 20 years since Tina was jealous of your ex-girlfriend and you still haven’t let that go if you’re still quick to point to that as hypocrisy and a reason she shouldn’t be friends or friendly with her exes.

It sounds like you’re setting yourself up to be back in that “game of blame/defense and push/pull.”