Reply To: Is it normal for your other half to fancy someone else
I mean it’s pretty easy to see who someone searched for on Facebook, and it would require zero snooping. If she were going to the search bar to find someone’s profile or event for the info she needed, then previous searches automatically pop up.
Going on Instagram did require some snooping though, but I think just don’t do it again and take it as a lesson learned.
I’d say it’s just harmless looking on his part. I fall into Facebook and Instagram black holes… Then delete the history immediately because how could I explain the deep dives I’ve gone on without sounding at least a little unhinged. But I think tons of people do it! Sometimes you just want to know if your childhood neighbor who kept poop in a box ever ended up in jail, or what could possibly explain why your coworkers are the way they are.
Side note: I love my partner, but I’m not dead either. It’s normal to find other people attractive and/or to be curious about other people’s lives. My general attitude is to trust a partner until they give my a reason not to, and this is not a reason to stop trusting your boyfriend. Also, it’s normal to feel a little jealousy every now and then. That’s ok too! Just don’t let it take over things.
