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He broke up with you and did so quite nastily. You were under zero obligation not to date or have sex with others. And the icing on top is that he had cheated on you and repeatedly betrayed your trust.
You did absolutely nothing wrong.
Your bf is a hypocritical jerk, alarmingly controlling, and not at all a nice person.
You are too close to the situation now to realize it, but you are far better off without him. You don’t have to live with him for another day. When he broke up before, he kicked you out.
Your insecurities tell you that you can’t cope without him or find as good a new bf, but both of those thoughts are 100% wrong.
Don’t try to win back his trust. He’s conning you. You did zilch to lose his trust. Just say goodbye and be done.