Reply To: Feeling regretful, or really overreacting?

In future I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to make moves towards something as serious as buying a house when you aren’t 100% across the other person’s finances yourself. Especially when he’s shown himself to be irresponsible with money. When we were looking at houses I knew down to the cent how much money we both had and our exact expenditures.

Obviously that’s a bit of hindsight but also I think a bit analogous to your relationship. He’s got all the control, he makes you dance to his tune to keep him happy and you just take it. Why? You don’t have to sit there in misery hoping he’ll call you again and you shouldn’t have to, you deserve better than this man..