Reply To: Feeling regretful, or really overreacting?

It doesn’t sound like he cares very much about you. This isn’t how someone who wants to marry you would be acting. What if you had a friend telling you all the stuff you just shared with us here? Bet you’d be supportive but secretly hope she’d come to her senses and realize she deserves a lot better.

I don’t know you but I bet you deserve a lot better than this.

And a relationship that ends isn’t a waste of time if you apply the lessons you learned from it to your life going forward.