Reply To: Leaving church

Good advice above. Just as a side note, maybe stepping back from church altogether,taking a break,could be a good thing. See how it feels and then if you miss it,go to different churches to find a good fit. You can also attend church without enmeshing your whole self and life with the pastor and people there. Then you may not feel like your “eggs are in one basket” and you have nothing if something goes wrong. And judging by your story,not all church people are models of morality.