Reply To: Am I being disrespectful??

It sounds really bad, to the point that he could be an abuser. Things like this are how they start, and it escalates. That’s why I’m trying to assess like how much time you’ve spent together and what else is going on.

I think, best case, he’s maybe not an abuser but just one of those guys that’s an ass and really difficult to deal with. Either way, you do not want to be in a relationship with someone who acts this way, but you should be aware there’s a good chance this is actually dangerous.