Reply To: Am I being disrespectful??

Why don’t you tell him that when he acts like that, you don’t want to talk to h8m and it’s made you upset?

Why do you apologize?

What Kate said.

It sounds like you are scared of upsetting him.
You lied over and over when he was asking what you were doing, you apologized at soon as that was required and agreed that you wouldn’t do it again.

Are you okay?

That is not okay. Are you happy in this relationship?
Do you have friends, what do they say about him and this behavior?