Reply To: I need relationship advice

So it’s July 5th now, which means at most you’ve been in a relationship for a month, and she’s already saying “I love you”. You’re feeling trepidation because there clearly is an imbalance of feelings here.

You can and should break up with her. That doesn’t make you an asshole. What would make you an asshole is staying in a relationship with someone you aren’t interested in.

If you want, you could stay in the relationship, but to do so you need to be honest with about how you’re feeling and get her to pump the breaks a bit.

Whichever route you choose will result in hurt feelings probably. You just need to decide what you want.