We did have a very good discussion once he cooled off . I think he was more upset about me going through his phone and less about texting her. I shared my text with him. He also then reciprocated by showing that he had removed her as a contact. I have not gone through his phone since as he is very honest. He really didn’t need to tell me anything but he knows I’m very intuitive.
I’m good with everything and I really appreciate the responses.
Honestly not going out for dinner is as much my fault. I’m an amazing cook. I even pick apart meals when we go for breakfast or lunch. But, dinner would be nice on rare occasions