Reply To: My husband is awful to me and I don’t understand why

Somehow you’ve convinced yourself that you have to help this POS. Why?

You seem to believe that you have to take care of him. Update his resume? Drive him around? While listening to his insults. WHY?

I have many theories on why he is such and abusive prick and I have theories on why you would put up with it – but you know what? It. Doesn’t. Matter. Why.

Go see a lawyer, go see a therapist. Figure your shit out and either lay down the law or get the hell out. Stop setting yourself on fire to make him warm.