Reply To: “Should I Give Him an Ultimatum?”

You are learning there’s a limit to how much you can fix a guy you see as a fixer-upper. It seems you liked zilch about the original him and have changed a few things but still find him unsatisfactory. Not a knock on you, I think most would find him unsatisfactory. MOA, for the sake of yourself, him, and your kids. If you look at this logically, he ticked zero of your boxes, definitely doesn’t want to parent your kids, or apparently to marry you, but you want all of that, plus ambition and cooking skills he lacks. Yikes!