Reply To: My husband is awful to me and I don’t understand why

Oh! This sounds like my ex-husband. And that’s why he’s my ex-husband. My only regret is that I didn’t leave him sooner: I believed everything he told me about our marriage problems being our fault etc. I tried for years to make him happy (so he would be nice to me): impossible.

Ten years later, I’m happily married to someone who loves me and treats me nicely. I know better things are ahead for you too.

Life is short. Too short to keep wasting on that guy.