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I agree with Kate. I’ve been in your shoes. No one spiked my drink, I just drank too much. Alcohol dims your inhibitions and clouds your judgement. You make bad decisions – but they are decisions. It sounds like you have two really positive things in your life: 1. You haven’t been abusing alcohol to that level again (I hope – it’s not entirely clear but it doesn’t sound like you’ve gotten black out or brown out drunk again. And 2. You have some very good friends who clearly work as a team to keep one another safe. Keep that in mind when you’re out with friends or even if you see something shady.
It sounds like you have regret/ anxiety – which I understand but suggest you either talk through it with someone or just keep in mind that when all is said and done, it was stupid but not damaging. We all have regrets about doing something stupid or foolish. All you can do is take the lesson learned and do better next time. We learn from our mistakes. Focusing on the mistake and not the lesson just keeps you stuck in the past. You have to keep moving forward.