Reply To: “My Partner is out of Town and I Don’t Want Him to Come Home”

It’s over and time to MOA. You and he are a poor match. You can stretch this out another half year trying to find a common ground to make it work, but best to just MOA. I don’t see how couples’ counseling or the like can help blend your oil and water personalities. Works for a very short time then you separate again. When you feel stifled and bored living with him and happy when he’s gone for days, that is a certain sign which you ignore at your peril. Yes, this will upset him, but he also will benefit in the long run.