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September 17, 2023 at 8:58 am #1125503

To me, this does sound like you are jealous of your friend — or that you are comparing yourself to her if she gets attention but you don’t. It’s not a competition.

So yes, it is rude if you’re in a group situation and one person is obviously ignoring only you, but instead of concluding that he’s a rude person whose behavior is a reflection on him, you let it become a reflection of your value. We socialize young women to want to be desired and chosen — been there! — and IMO it’s dangerous. I think it’s worth your while to reflect on why it’s so important to you to have your worth validated by a guy — one you don’t even seem to know at that — if you have such a strong sense of self worth.