Reply To: Cheated and guilty

I think you should seek therapy if you’ve been forgiven, can’t forgive yourself and are having breakdowns about it. I have cheated in my past (a very long time ago, not this relationship) and I don’t think it made me a monster then or now. And I am pretty hard on myself. I hope you can understand that everyone makes mistakes and nothing you have done is that terrible or unforgivable. I’m sorry you can’t let it go.

Good luck.