Instead of making new posts, you need to stick to one thread. It’s super confusing to people trying to follow this when the info is in 4 different posts. Keep your replies on this one please. I’m going to start deleting new ones on the same topic to keep thing streamlined and so you can get better advice.
You’re not supposed to be friends with people you report to, who supervise your work. They’re not your peers.
You have to just focus entirely on doing your job well. That’s how you get people to respect you at work. Not by adopting a fuck off attitude.