Hey bloody, I hate to say this and be that person always, but I was tricked into breaking up with my long term bf in college because some group of dudes thought it would be funny and wanted to try their chance at dating me. That was college, and I was a tiny teen model, not a pudgy awkward person.
They were absolutely brutal to the less attractive in different ways. Guys like this are just assholes. Women are abstract playthings for many men. We’re here to mess with and discard. Not All Guys, no, definitely not all but plenty are totally despicable jerks to women.
Maybe he’s not like this, but I’d be careful.