Reply To: When is the right time to tell someone I’m dating that I was conceived of

Thank you for your answer. I actually didn’t tell the first girl I dated in high school and she was very much into me. We had great time together. But she found out about it and she decided to stop seeing me. She even told me she regrets knowing me and I should’ve told her about it earlier.

Yes, we were both kids in high school and adult relationships are totally different but I can’t help myself but worry about the moment this girl I’m dating would know and how she might react. I definitely wouldn’t want her to regret knowing me or to stop seeing me for it, but it’s a possibility.

But you’re also right and bringing up the topoc early on could also be a red flag for her and could scare her away, so I guess I won’t do it.