Reply To: When is the right time to tell someone I’m dating that I was conceived of

It sounds like your mom has you convinced that somewhere deep down you have some sort of “evil” that only you can control. That is bullshit. Rape is not a inheritable trait. If it makes you feel better to tell someone so that they have more insight into who you are – OK.

But… not everyone is going to be kind with this information, as you’ve already seen. And I’ll repeat my oft said advice to the youths of today: You do not owe anyone all of your secrets.

You don’t owe this information to anyone.