Before I even read your post I knew what it was. You couldn’t even put in effort to write a full title. Dating local hard. Yeah. Dating IS hard. Being a hateful conservative man who thinks calling a stranger on the internet “trans” is both an insult and okay to say…well I have never felt more confident in my nailing the advice. I am a woman, and way out of your league.
You are an incel. What’s it like to hate the thing you think you want to screw/date? Sounds pretty messed up. Must be weird.
And you’re wrong, I love men, and especially my husband but none of them are hateful, disrespectful jerks like you, so maybe consider changing that aspect of yourself.