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DD
December 1, 2023 at 11:07 am #1126895

You don’t understand the scope of his problem and it’s above your pay grade. He gets a dopamine hit when he spends and he’s hooked on it. You can’t fix this. It will ruin your life. You can insist on couples counselling but people who have addiction issues have to go after recovery like a bulldog. They must want freedom from addiction above everything else. You know that he wants to keep spending and hiding it from you. That will get even worse when he will be able to access your funds. Ditch him. I’m sorry, but that’s the advice I would give you if you were my daughter.