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LisforLeslie
December 4, 2023 at 11:00 am #1126928

I highly doubt the lightbulb came on – people who don’t behave like good guests don’t magically realize they are bad guests. Either someone sat them down and said “you are a terrible guest, I can see why everyone has asked you to leave” or everyone did what your husband did and asked a reasonable question that offended them leaving them with no options without groveling.

What this really means is that you never actually established a boundary with your family – so you’re still at risk for having those unspoken boundaries broken. All you did was kick the can down the road.