Reply To: “My friends accidentally saw my boyfriends nudes at girls night”

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December 12, 2023 at 1:35 pm #1127066

I’m an iPhone user and realize you may not have the same kind of phone, but there is a “hidden photo album” option on there where the photos get filed away into a password-protected folder. I assume other smart phones have similar setting options. But you do have to be careful and as others have pointed out, there are very real privacy risks to sending/saving these kinds of photos that extend beyond a friendly quickly seeing it by accident.

I agree that I’d say something if you think it’ll get back to him. If this happened with my friends now in my mid-30s, I’m sure nobody would make it a thing. If you’re young, you may not be so lucky… I could definitely see this becoming gossip in a college environment.

Anyway, it was an honest mistake so I don’t think you need to beat yourself up over it or continue to feel riddled with guilt. You can learn from it. It’s ok.