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IDEK
December 19, 2023 at 12:02 pm #1127171

@Part-time Lurker Totally get what u are trying to say. And yea i may be sounding unkind by saying that im gonna be friends w her for the guy. Sounds rude to my ears as well lol. But i need to let him know that im interested in him and its not gonna work if she is gonna be around all the time. If she’s around I’ll have to divert most of my attention to her since usually im the one inviting her. But if i can talk to him in private he might understand that im interested. U r right tho. Its bitchy to be a fake friend to someone because they have connections. Im gonna be friendly towards her and find some time to spend without involving this guy. Thank you for telling me this.


@LisforLeslie
ur reply is exactly what i needed! I dont know how she sensed that i like her friend but if she did ur reply makes a lot of sense. Im gonna keep what u said in mind and approach this situation accordingly. I had made a bunch of plans w her earlier and she kept blowing me off but she has agreed to hang out during the christmas party. Im gonna hang out with her without the dude so that i can also be good friend towards her. If i find the guy ill just have a chat with him and ask for his number 🤞

Thank you for these replies. A different perspective rlly helps. Wish me luck ❤️🤞