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Why do you invite her? You invite her out and then your first post was about how annoyed you were that she- the person you are inviting to spend time with you- is hindering your chances.
YOU are hindering your chances. Because you’re thinking of the best way to manipulate this situation instead of just…talking to him and getting to know him.
What seems to have happened is the same thing you said you’ve done before, you’ve befriended her but now you’re annoyed that it’s not progressing with your actual love interest and you’re trying to come up with ways to get her away…but you can’t even talk to this guy on your own.
My suggestion is the next time, stop going to the best friend, go to the source. This same situation will keep playing out if you keep trying to “befriend” his bff while also secretly hating her.