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IDEK
December 20, 2023 at 7:24 pm #1127193

@Copa i understand. I probably screwed this up all by myself. Im gonna try and fix it the way u said at the party. Ill be a bit flirty like u said, but i might not confess my feelings just yet.

@Anonymousse
Alr im gonna say it again, it was my mistake that i didn’t ask him for his number the first, and actually, only time we had a conversation. I tried to, towards the end of our interaction, and when i did the girl just spoke over me saying that its getting late and i should be getting home. Maybe i wasnt assertive enough or whatever but i didn’t have a chance to meet him or ask him for his number and i was desperate to see him again so i contacted the girl since these two usually hang out together. So yea i fell it into the trap which i created but again, i dont hate her nor am i jealous. And ur right they’re prolly confused (i definitely am) or not caring about this shit at all. Ur also right about the asking him out part as well. I know i shouldnt be scared and that he’s not gonna figure it out by himself but it just doesn’t feel right to tell him so early. I dont know wut i should do (*scratches head aggressively *). Ive only ever been in two frickin relationships both of which went at a snail’s pace before it officially started. To answer urs and @bloodymediocrity ‘s question, im 16. Like bruh, did u think a 12-14 yr old would just waltz into the forum lol. And it’s not that rare for parents to have control over the child’s socials right? Its annoying but its necessary. If i appear childish, its cuz i am. And just suck at this kind of stuff. My friends as well. Which is why im here. But i will try talking to him today. Thx for this ❣️.

P.S. im surprised u guys already had crushes when u were 12. When i was 12 i was thinking about boogers and not boys lmao (still dont know which one is worse).