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LisforLeslie
December 21, 2023 at 6:30 am #1127195

Would not be surprised at all if someone were 12 or 14.

That said – at 16 you are still learning how to be bold and how to be “you”. You started this conversation about your crush and how his best friend is in your way. You didn’t say you met two great people who you want to be friends with and also getting a crush on one of them. You told us that you had a crush on this one guy, and he has a friend, so you’re trying to make her your friend not because you want to be her friend, but because it will make getting time with him easier.

Now you’re trying to justify these manipulations but you started with the premise that she’s in your way. That’s your perspective, not ours. Perhaps we’re telling you things you don’t want to hear –