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Okay, don’t make an effort to be friends with this girl. She blew you off 3x. I mean be polite and respectful to her, but she’s not your way in with this guy. Go around her. At the Christmas party, chat with him. Ask him some questions. Then say something like, hey, feel free to go circulate or whatever, I don’t want to monopolize your time. Give him an out. If he takes it, that is kind of a cue. You don’t need to have an hours long marathon overshare convo. See if he seeks you out. If you have a nice time chatting with him, tell him you had a really nice time talking with him, and give him your number or Instagram. Just like, hey, I had a nice time with you. Here is my insta so you know how to reach me.
That is how you meet someone organically and signal that you’d like to continue the convo.