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Kate
December 21, 2023 at 12:41 pm #1127210

I missed the fact that you don’t have socials. But still. Really the right way to do these things is to have a brief friendly convo, offer him an out if he wants it, tell him you had a nice time talking to him, and give him your number. No confession necessary. If he doesn’t pick it up, he’s not into you in that way, and that’s ok. It’s not personal.

I don’t know if it’s weird for a 16 year old not to have control of her own socials. My brother is 51 and my dad logs into his FB and stuff to block ppl so he doesn’t get scammed. A first crush at 16 does seem odd though. I was like 10 when I had a crush. So yes, 12 would be more than believable. I buy that you’re 16 but I would also buy 12.