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December 23, 2023 at 9:34 am #1127234

It’s a coincidence, and you have him in your mind. You need to get over him, not keep obsessing over him.

Lots of the guy to the same “obscure music.” I mean I hate to be that guy, but if a lot of people are into it, it’s not that rare or weird or obscure. It seems to be popular and they play it at your workplace.

I hate to be crass but the best way to get over somebody is to get with somebody else. Stop letting everything be about him, it’s not. He’s not that great. Go out on a date.

If this is truly about the band playing on the speakers, because that sees to be the only tangible thing you said is reminding you of him, ask them not to play it, or see if you can wear headphones.