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Kate
December 25, 2023 at 7:19 am #1127255

“apparently his secret has been going on for a few years and he stopped right before entering hs. We’ve been together for about a year and he told me his secret is pretty much illegal, worse than lust. At the time he was drinking alcohol and smoking too but that’s not the worst of it, it could ruin his family if they found out”

It sounds like it could be as bad as ongoing rape / incest.

Look, it’s something really bad. He’s telling you he wants to change for you, but those are words. You don’t know what he did. You don’t know if he can change. Without any information other than what he’s told you, you have to end the relationship so you don’t end up implicated or having it ruin YOUR life.