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I agree you should step back. Though it may possibly not be something that he did, but could it be along the lines Kate suggested, that was done to him? Just another way to consider and maybe why he feels bad about himself and was drinking a lot etc. However as you do not know and he will not tell you, I think you should step back, tell him he needs to figure himself out/get therapy, get better and you wish him well.