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Daisy
December 28, 2023 at 10:31 pm #1127319

Ugh, any man who calls you stupid and naive and that you don’t have common sense is not someone you need to keep around. Your partner should make you feel good about yourself and celebrate your strengths, not insult you and tear down your self esteem.

Your boyfriend also sounds like one of those sexist jerks who thinks women (I’m assuming you’re a woman, please forgive me if I’m wrong) are “too emotional” while men are “logical.” But anger is an emotion, and someone who can’t control his anger, who “bursts out like a volcano” and calls his partner nasty names, is actually the one who is way too emotional. I’m willing to bet your emotions aren’t damaging to him the way his are to you.