Yes, what everyone has said! Also people that have unsympathetic and or abusive behavior often “relax” more after marriage, and controlling/abusive/odd perspectives on things get worse and their true nature unspools. Plus think of having kids and how he/his dad will react to typical/normal kid behavior…what if you had a child that hurt themselves/got injured. It would be pretty horrific for your kids to endure the weird and awful reaction you experienced to your burn. Please, no second chances, you need to leave/break up.