I thought I was being a little over the top in my thinking but, this gave me a creepy feeling when this dad pointed at you and said something is wrong with you, and then when you wpwere convinced to come back to that hellhole came, he said loves his son but not “that”- that is dehumanizing language. His father calls you and probably treats all women as subhuman things, objects, men’s toys, something to like or not. You didn’t make the food without “wasting water?” In a beach town? Seems really insane and unhinged. That your bf is there and thought bringing you there would be good? and goes along like this is normal and blames it on his abuse- YET knows enough that he’s scared of you telling anyone for fear of what they will think of him. He’s got major daddy issues, and he probably was aware something like this was bound to happen.