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HeartsMum
January 6, 2024 at 4:26 pm #1127520

“ I promise I hadn’t done anything wrong at his dad’s house prior to this, at least I don’t think I had.” this is the chilling part of your letter. It shows you are primed to believe that only if you do all the right things, you can avoid a blow-up. Classic thinking in an abusive situation. Please consider getting some counselling, to help you see that such behaviour is never deserved.