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Kate
January 9, 2024 at 10:24 am #1127548

Yup. And again, I assume it’s not personal. That she’s looking at everyone’s shape/size to compare herself to them out of insecurity. But it might be more personal than that, as she’s made more comments to me about my appearance than I hear her making to other people.

I brought it up to HR during this whole investigation which I did not instigate, which happened late summer / early fall. Someone else on our team started the whole thing, but when questioned, I did tell the truth about some of the weird ways she interacts with me, and the concerning way she treats one of my direct reports. She’s being worked with and coached, but the comment about my pants size, to my dismay, occurred after she’d been spoken to.