“And it’s becoming a big reason I want to break things off but he just always reminds me that I’m being crazy & most other girls would never have a problems with the things he does.”
He’s trying to make you feel crazy and break down your self esteem because if it was that easy to find a woman who would be ok with *that* behaviour, you can bet he’d be with her already. This man doesn’t care about you, I’m sorry to say. He cheats, he lies, he sounds like he’s emotionally abusive. The best thing you can do for yourself is get far away from him.