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When you say you’ve been together ‘a long time’, how long is that exactly? How much time have you physically spent together? How well do you know each other’s friends and families? Have either of you been in long term relationships before? It sounds like you do not have much relationship experience. Do not consider marriage with someone you hardly know in the real, physical world. A spouse should be your cheerleader, not your jailer. This guy sounds absolutely awful. The world is full of lovely men who will not act like spoiled toddlers if they cannot control you. You are missing out on them with this turkey. He spends a lot of time telling you how you just living your life like a normal adult makes him feel. Turn that on him. Tell him acting like surveillance is required to merit his trust makes you extremely uncomfortable and you’re not going to report in like you’re on parole. If he wants to be worthy of you, he needs to trust you. If he can’t, he is not worthy. The only mistake you’re making is tolerating this behaviour.