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You keep saying “I’m an introverted and private person” without explaining the relevance. The subtext I’m getting is that you don’t want to break up because then you’d be alone. This is the exact type of person an abuser seeks out, because they are easier to control.
Boyfriend aside: are you happy with your life? Are you doing things you enjoy? If boyfriend ghosted you tomorrow what would your life look like?
If the answer is yes you’re happy with your life, why isn’t your boyfriend happy and excited for you?
Is your boyfriend happier when you’re happier? When things go well, is he excited for you?
If not, really sit on what that means for you.