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The person with this concern
January 28, 2024 at 3:51 pm #1127904

Hello everyone. I really appreciate your advice. There are a few things that I need to clarify. I’m 28 and he’s 29. I’ve never been to his house before, we live in two different countries and it’s been difficult for me to get a Visa. He does give me updates on his daily life and he does tell me when he’s going out. He lives with his roommates who are all men and he spends most of his time working so I don’t think he has a girlfriend there and I don’t wanna believe that he’s in another LDR because that would be just ridiculous.
When I talk about being an introvert, I mean that I haven’t been able to develop good communication and social skills. I thought mentioning it would be relevant to the issue in case people wanted to know a bit more about me.
I admit that reading all the responses made me think differently and I started noticing the things he says more and respond to them differently for example if he says something that I don’t like I immediately tell him…etc
I’m more accepting of the idea that this man could not be the right one, so I’m gonna start focusing on myself more, practice my hobbies and go out more and spend more time with my friends and family.