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Anonymousse
January 28, 2024 at 9:49 pm #1127910

I have to echo, how feasible is being together, marriage and a life if he is 29 and living with roommates in another country 8 hours away? Was he always in another country? Have you ever thought the reason you both are choosing someone you can’t actually be with is because you unconsciously want to keep yourself from real vulnerability and love? He can’t get to know you from his distance.

I understand you’re probably like, WTF why do they need to know? Incomplete and inaccurate info affects the advice.

He’s met your friends and family? Your parents and roommates?

You should take these “social issues” to your GP. He or she can refer you to a therapist or a psychiatrist. A simple anti anxiety medication or coping skills may help you immensely.

I think you need to let this guy go and date people local to you that you can actually develop a close relationship with. 8 hours away in another country seems like a purposeful choice not to get close to anyone.