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January 29, 2024 at 5:47 am #1127912

His behavior strongly suggests that HE is not trustworthy. I, too, wondered if you had seen his living situation on video, seen / met his roommates. Even if that’s all true, I think you’re naive to think he couldn’t be entertaining other women. Multiple-male roommate situations are conducive to that, I know because I’ve heard wild stories about my husband’s college and post college living situation. And even if you’ve met his family.., I mean, again, it’s a red flag if you haven’t, but even if you have, it doesn’t matter. A lot of us have met, gone on vacation with, etc., the families of men who cheated on us. Finally, great point about why you would choose a boyfriend who lives 6 time zones away… what’s that, the US? Asia? … in a country you can’t visit. Right? You chose that for a reason, consciously or subconsciously. It makes a lot of sense to see if you can work with a therapist or coach on your social issues, whether that’s anxiety or something else.

We’re not trying to be jerks here, but do want you to see that this isn’t a good situation for you.