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January 29, 2024 at 10:54 am #1127915

I think speculation that he’s got hoes in other area codes is kind of beside the point here. This relationship isn’t going anywhere regardless. But yes, a VERY sizable chunk of my friends have ended up inadvertently out with men who turned out to be married or in relationships. Or have had the unpleasant experience I’ve had of discovering their SO is using dating sites to meet other people. The most egregious was a friend who dated a guy for 4-5 months who said his wife died in a boating accident. The wife turned out to be very much still alive. My friend found court records indicating they’d very recently filed for divorce, but they were definitely still married and living together while she was with him. I thought it was super creepy that he didn’t just hold himself out as single… why did he have to invent a story in which his wife died tragically? People are messy out there.