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This is one walking RED FLAG. Grilling people and demanding details about everything a person does is not healthy and not how someone shows they care. Also… making mouth noises about some hypothetical future together isn’t a reason to not want to lose a relationship. All those plans are just that … mouth noises. They mean nothing.
I want you to imagine having someone in your life who you see frequently and enjoys doing the same activities together but who is thrilled when you go out with your friends and the only question they ask is “did you have a nice time?”
This guy has managed to manipulate you into a “promise” you never should have been asked to give much less given. If you won’t just break up with him, please please simply tell him that it isn’t his business how you spend your time and who with and just stop catering to this nonsense.